“Standing on the edge of the world with you.”
I do love weddings, though I’m not one to enjoy the fuss and attention that usually goes with them. My own marriage ceremony was extremely low-key…so low-key in fact that, apart from parents and two witnesses, our friends and relatives did not find out about it until after I became a Mrs (well, sort of…I kept my last name)!
The same cannot be said of my brother’s own nuptials last spring. The whole event was nothing short of spectacular. Two island resorts in Riau were commandeered for the celebrations and all-expenses-paid holiday for guests, which lasted several days (mostly over the weekend). Luckily, all organisation was taken care of by my rather imperturbable sister-in-law, bro and co., which left little for the rest of us to do but enjoy our time in the sunshine.
Hubby David was sadly unable to make the trip due to prior work commitments, so daughter Zhouyi and I had a whole villa to ourselves, including a large balcony over the water. The entire experience from start to finish can only be described as unforgettable, and the location could not have been more beautiful. Guests were asked to refrain from taking pictures (though professional photographers were hired) during the exchange of vows and equally anticipated fully-suited/gowned dock-jump (ok, bride’s chiffon overskirt cleverly untied to reveal a shorter lace frock), but there were no camera restrictions the rest of the time, which allowed me to compile an entire album of gorgeous memories.
Months before the big day, I came across the Ultimate Cutting Board on a facebook post by the happy couple. I did originally intend to buy it for them as a wedding gift, but the Kickstarter product wouldn’t have arrived in time for my flight. Then I noticed that my brother and his soon-to-be bride had sent a message to all guests, suggesting that presents were not necessary as it was our presence that they would treasure more. I wasn’t sure how to proceed at this point, as I really wanted to do something special…I mean, this is my little brother we’re talking about, and he’s about to reach an important milestone!!!
After much deliberation, I thought the best compromise would be something handmade (of course!). I’d seen quite a few bespoke Scrabble-inspired gifts on Etsy, and had been toying with the idea of making one. What with Gabriel and Aggie being being into geeky stuff like that, I thought this would be the perfect opportunity. I’d never done it before, so I wasn’t sure how I was going to pull it off. Plus, there were only a few weeks left to go.
I managed to order a few of the materials from Ebay, such as the Scrabble tiles, but everything else (except paper and string) was from my nearest Hobbycraft. Not the cheapest option, but taking into account possible cock-ups, time wasn’t really on my side.
The design I had in mind incorporated the Chinese ‘double happiness’ 囍 character (traditional symbol of marriage) as central focus, with the tiles forming a border around it, but I was worried about wonky positioning. Turns out accuracy wasn’t as tricky to achieve as I thought it would be. Once I had decided on the words, I just glued each section together in strips. Doing it this way instead of sticking each individual letter to the board made it less likely for mistakes to happen.
Creating the background image was probably the easiest part of the project since I was in my natural element as a Graphic Designer. A bit of sleuthing (basically snooping on facebook) was required to find out the couple’s official anniversary date (not the wedding…long story involving cultural norms. My brother lives in Singapore, and I’m from the UK), but it was pretty much plain sailing once Photoshop/Illustrator was fired up. I played with a few colourways, but eventually decided on the subtlest since I didn’t want the final product to look cluttered.
To get a quality finish, I sent the design off to Instant Print which I later cut down to size at home (with a bit of help from David who has steadier hands!). The Scrabble sections were then glued into place. I took care to leave a decent gap around the edges, and had previously done a few test prints using my own inkjet to ensure the measurements were right. The large space above the ‘heart’ was deliberate as I’d planned an extra decorative touch.
My first idea of a 3D heart garland (embellished with ‘Mr & Mrs’ from an alphabet stamp set I already had) did not work well. It was too large and bulky, and just wouldn’t hang right. However, my second attempt with mini paper bunting worked a dream. The floral ‘Laura Ashley’ feel wasn’t intentional, but I liked that it added a little more romance and charm to the whole effect. I can’t quite remember where I got the patterned paper from as I always have loads of that lying about, but a quick search online will probably bring up a huge selection.
Once my Scrabble gift was complete, I realised that the tiles obscured quite a bit of my ‘heart’ word cloud, which seemed a shame, so I ended up submitting the image to TShirt Studio to get a matching cushion printed. Now I was faced with the conundrum of taking two not-exactly-small presents on board a plane and ensuring that both got out the other side unscathed.
Years of long-distance travelling have taught me to pack light, so I didn’t have to sacrifice much space in my suitcase for the box frame. I simply enveloped it in bubblewrap, and surrounded it with rolls of clothing. The cushion accompanied me as hand baggage. With the logistics all sorted, the only thing I had to worry about was the weather, and that as you can see, was no disappointment either.